Cancer

Riding the Rollercoaster

January 29th, 2010  |  Published in Cancer

The last few weeks have been a real rollercoaster ride.  Juana and I have ridden the rollercoaster together. So many emotions and feelings, ups and downs. We laugh, we joke, and underneath is tremendous sadness and helplessness.

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Another tuesday another doctor, another decision

January 12th, 2010  |  Published in Cancer

If it’s tuesday, it must be a doctor day. Juana and I went to Dr. Andriulli, her heart doctor of 12 years. She has been experiencing alot of pressure in her chest and radiating pain. Juana has died and come back so many times in the past due to her heart stopping that we joke about it. She has a defibulator and a pacemaker in her.

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The First of Everything

January 11th, 2010  |  Published in Cancer

It will be 1 year tomorrow that my stepdaughters mother passed away from pancreatic cancer. A year that was a rollercoaster ride of emotions, feelings and thoughts for them. These young women were now in the process of rebuilding their lives without their mother. They have struggled along the way.

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Tuesday with Juana

January 7th, 2010  |  Published in Cancer, General Interest

We went to the oncologist this past tuesday. Bright and early in the morning, something that Juana is totally allergic too. We both commented on what a beautiful morning, and how extremely cold. Did i mention that Juana is allergic to cold too?

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Cancer, Dignity and Dunkin Donuts

December 31st, 2009  |  Published in Cancer

On monday  I took my girlfriend Juana for her 3 month CAT scans to see what the bone cancer is doing, afterwards we headed to Dunkin Donuts for breakfast. Juana and I have always been extremely honest and open with each other. That is one of the beautiful things about our relationship. We truly honor and respect each others wishes, and value the openness that we have together.

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Thursday Lunch with Juana

December 18th, 2009  |  Published in Cancer

I had lunch with my girlfriend Juana who has stage 4 bone cancer, yesterday. It was a very spontaneous event. We ended up at a restaurant that had a beautiful view of a lake. The sun was shining in the big windows, the room was warm and very inviting. Read the rest of this entry »


Introducing The GoodGrief Cancer Blog

December 16th, 2009  |  Published in Cancer

As I am writing this new blog, the first thought that comes to mind is, what is the purpose for this blog? When diagnosed with cancer our whole life changes in that instant. A new hand has been dealt and how we play that new hand is the key.

This blog is a place to normalize all of the emotions, feelings, thoughts and actions, share our stories,  help inspire and support people to thrive and discover the joy and happiness in life once again.